Keeping Your Kids Safe at School

By Diane Tait

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With another school year rapidly approaching for children in Florida, I thought I’d take the time to address school safety.  There doesn’t seem to be a month when parents aren’t regaled with news of school shootings, bullying on and off the playground, or strangers approaching children on their way to or from school.  While these episodes seem rampant due to the fact that the media hypes them no matter where or when they occur, nonetheless today’s parents have to deal with more than a bit of anxiety about their kids than my parents ever did.  If you start wringing your hands the moment your child heads for the bus stop every morning, here are a few tips to help keep them safe.

      1.      How safe is your child’s school? – While you have no doubt visited your child’s school during a parent-teacher conference, do you know how safe it is or the neighborhood in which it resides?  The Internet has several resources that can provide you with crime statistics on any neighborhood.  CrimeMapping and CrimeReports can not only tell you what kinds of crimes have occurred in the area where your child’s school is located, it can also show you if any registered sex offenders live nearby. 

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Busted at the bus stop? – Another geographic area to keep an eye on is the corner where your children get on and off the school bus.  While pedophiles are required to stay 1,000 feet away from a school or a school bus stop, that doesn’t mean they can’t approach your kids once they wander further afield.  Plus, it doesn’t take a sexual predator to hurt your kids at or near a bus stop.  Far more incidents of children being hurt or killed occur while going to and from the bus.  That’s because some kids either don’t look before crossing the street, or they get into harm’s way while playing on the way to or from the bus.  While you can’t watch over your kids every second of the day, you can make sure that they wear brightly colored clothing that makes it easier for motorists to see them and you can emphasize the right and wrong way to cross the street.

      3.      Bully on board. – Every kid who has ever attended school has had to deal with a bully from time to time.  The difference between bullies today as opposed to those that most parents are familiar has to do with the fact that kids can now be bullied online as well as in the schoolyard.  The biggest problem with bullying is that many kids are afraid to tell their parents about it.  The second problem is even if they do, many parents are unsure of what to do about the bullying.  Should they confront the bully or the bully’s parents?  The answer is no.  If your child is being bullied at school, the best course of action is to talk to the teacher or school principal first.  Write down the details of the incidents so you can present the evidence to school officials.  Above all, make sure you meet with officials calmly.  While seeing your child bullied is sure to make you angry, the only way to get it to stop is to stay cool, calm and collected.

      4.      Cyberbullying – Just as with physical bullying, the best way to deal with cyberbullying is by proxy.  Resist the urge for you or your child to respond directly online.  This will only give the cyberbully satisfaction and it could result in an escalation of the attack.  The best way to stop a cyberbully is to save every inflammatory remark along with their screenname or email address.  Instead of responding in kind, the quickest way to stop a cyberbully in his or her tracks is to first block the bully, then to tell the service provider the situation.  This will usually result in the bully being kicked off the service.  If this doesn’t stop the abuse, feel free to turn the evidence over to school officials or even law enforcement, since cyberbullying is sometimes considered a crime. 

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      5.      When was the last time you talked to your child’s teacher? – While parent-teacher conferences are a great way to learn more about your child as well as the school they attend, if it’s been more than 6-months since you met with a teacher, you shouldn’t wait for an invitation.  Call the school to make an appointment to see the teacher as opposed to waiting for the teacher to contact you. During the meeting, ask not only about how your child is doing scholastically, also take the time to inquire about who your child’s school friends are and how your child gets along with classmates.  Believe it or not, teachers know more about the kids in their care than most parents realize. 

      6.      How is life on the home front? – Another area that has a direct bearing on how well kids do at school has to do with their home life.  If everything is rosy at home, that means your child has a better than even chance of doing well in school.  However, if you are recently divorced, or are having financial troubles, this can quickly affect your child’s attitude at school.  Children will often take out their frustrations by acting out in the classroom or neglecting their studies.  This stress can also make it more likely that they will get in fights either during or after class.  If you’re going through a rough patch at home, by all means tell your child’s teacher about it.  Many schools have counselors who can help your kids deal with stressful domestic situations. 

      7.      How well do you communicate with your kids?One of the best ways to help keep your children safe and secure is to let them know they can tell you anything.  The problem with parent/child communication is that it tends to get less effective the older your kids get.  While grade schoolers are generally receptive to speaking openly with parents, teenagers can become closemouthed due to everything from peer pressure to hormones.  If you feel you can no longer communicate openly and honestly with your children, the two alternatives are therapy or communication by proxy.  By that, I mean that if you know a family friend or relative that your child knows and respects, you should see if you can get them to address your concerns with your child if you can’t. 

Diane Tait owns and operates A&B Insurance.  To find out more about how you can save money on home owner’s insurance, go to her site or fill out the form at right.


  1. I'm glad my son is grown up, school safety is a little scary today.


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